Sunday, October 25, 2009

Week 3 - Media Images of the Family: I Love Lucy

By: Madison Williamson, Jessica Navarrette, Meghan Slaalien, Michael Esclana, & Lauren Piligian


Please Enjoy Our Formal Introduction:

Families in the 50s and Background Information on I Love Lucy:

In the 50’s, family life was much different than it is today. The man’s role in the family was to be the provider to his wife and children. As stated on a web site that describes life in the 50’s, “Men were the main breadwinners in the family”. They were the head of the household, and were usually in charge of the family’s money. In some rare instances, women worked, mostly as secretaries. The woman’s main job in the home was to be a wife, mother, and housekeeper. PBS.org discusses how a common sexual script of women during the 1950’s was that of getting married immediately after high school. Getting married right out of high school or while in college was considered the norm. A common stereotype was that women went to college to get a M.R.S degree, meaning a husband. Although women had other aspirations in life, the dominant theme promoted in the culture and media at the time was that a husband was far more important for young women, than a college degree. The 1950’s was known as the baby boom area, although, children were not a very important dynamic of the family. Children were expected to “be seen and not heard.” Another strong characteristic of the 1950’s, according to fiftiesweb.com, was that divorce was highly frowned upon. With divorce came a very strong stigma. Therefore, there were a lot of unhappy marriages, because of societal pressure to stay married.

I Love Lucy debuted October 15th, 1951. Lucille Ball, a fiery red headed American, and Desi Arnaz, a Cuban born immigrant, were a married couple owning their own production company called Desilu Productions. This was very groundbreaking, as Lucille was the first women to part own a production company. The show was based off of a radio show that Lucille had previously starred in. I Love Lucy consisted of a married couple, Lucy and Ricky Ricardo, who lived in an apartment complex in the upper east side of New York City, in the 1950’s. Their best friends who are like a part of their family, or fictive kin, Ethel and Fred Mertz, lived downstairs, and owned the apartment building. Most of the television series depicts how Lucy always goes against the social norms that are expected of her. According to Christopher Anderson of the Museum of Broadcast Communications, “Lucy is a frustrated housewife who longs to escape the comfinement of her domestic role and participate in a larger public world, preferably to join Ricky in show business.” By the end of every episode, however, Lucy is put back into her place as housewife and is not usually successful in her attempts. Although I Love Lucy is intended to be a humorous depiction of a housewife in the 1950’s, it stands and symbolizes much more than meets the eye.

Television shot up in popularity in the 1950s with 17 million Americans owning a television set by 1951 (Families). With I Love Lucy debuting that same year, it is clear that the show would have a tremendous impact on American families. The media illustrates how families are expected to look and act. However, although most families were portrayed to be the norm on television, “its programs have often presented multiple and contradictory messages” (Spigel, L.). I Love Lucy is a prime example of this because of its depiction of the typical wife who is “supposed” to follow the rules and regulations of her husband; however she is constantly going against the societal norms and break free from these restraints. The show portrays that happy families consist of a working husband with a stay at home wife and as long as they love each other, their lives will be happy. However, if families like this were as happy as they are depicted to be, why does Lucy seem constantly unsatisfied with her life, and trying to be more than just a housewife?

References:

Anderson, C. (n.d.) I LOVE LUCY: U.S. Situation Comedy. Retrieved Octore 20, 2009, from http://www.museum.tv/archives/etv/I/htmlI/ilovelucy/ilovelucy.htm

Spigel, L. (n.d.). Family on Television. Retrieved October 20, 2009, from http://www.museum.tv/archives/etv/F/htmlF/familyontel/familyontel.htm

Families in the Fifties, Retrieved October 20, 2009, from http://www.fiftiesweb.com/pop/info-family.htm


Some Questions to think about:

Do you think that when the show I Love Lucy was produced, it was intended to be more than just a comedy?

Did they mean to specifically depict women going against her husband’s wishes and society’s expectations?

How do you personally view I Love Lucy through the sociological lens?

Final Thoughts . . .

Thank you to everyone who participated in the discussion this week. This is a crucial time for homosexual families and our goal with this blog was to provide our peers with enough information to make an educated decision about where they stand on the topic of the same-sex family. It is clear that inequalities for gay and lesbian couples are still very problematic when it comes to marriage rights and adoption, but there is a lot of potential for change and acceptance in the near future. We hope that we were able to present the topic in a way that touched close to home for most people, whether it was in the personal stories, celebrity stories, or current events. Based on the discussion and poll results from this week, it is clear that the majority of our peers view gay marriage and adoption as something that should be an integral part of society. Most people seem to agree that no two people who are in love, no matter what their gender should be deprived of legal rights to their partner and that no child should be deprived of a loving home, even if it is with two mommies or two daddies. We hope that at least one of these posts has sparked your interest and that you will continue to follow the issue as it progresses.

Thanks!
Emma, Lisa, Kim, Cassidy and Jacqueline

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Current Events

Article: “Task Force applauds Gov. Schwarzenegger for signing into law three LGBT rights bills”
Location- California
People in Charge- Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
Reason of importance- Schwarzenegger signed three LBGT (Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay and Transgender) bills. The first bill allows marking May 22 as “Harvey Milk Day” honoring the gay leader, Harvey Milk. The second bill passed is allowing all same sex couples, married before Proposition 8, the same marriage rights as all the heterosexual partners have. The third bill passed expands funding of domestic violence for same-sex relationships. Unfortunately two did not get passed. These two bills allowed transgender individuals to obtain a new birth certificate stating their correct gender. The second bill that did not get passed asked to recognize gender identity as well as sexual orientation convicts and house them safely.
Question: If the second bill that did not get passed (recognizing gender identity as well as sexual orientation convicts and house them safely) got passed, how would you house these convicts safely?


Article: Thousands march in Washington for gay rights

Location- Washington D.C.

People in charge- Obama and LBGT activists

Reason of importance- The march followed president Obama’s speech about abolishing the “don’t ask don’t tell” policy in the military. The reason for the march was to push a time-line on when the policy will be repealed and also to fight for the “1,100” rights that heterosexual people had and LBGT people are denied. A few days after the march Obama stated that he is working on undoing former president, Bill Clinton’s “Defense of marriage Act ” by allowing same-sex couples to marry and be federally recognized.


Article: “Senate passes gay hate-crimes bill”

Location- Washington, D.C

People in Charge- Congress

Reason of importance- A bill was passed posing that it will be a federal crime to inflict violence upon Gays and Lesbians as well as any other group (i.e: religion, race, gender and disability). This article states that soon (whenever this might be) President Obama will pass the bill so it will officially become a federal crime.

Question: What other groups do you think might be added to this bill in the future?


Article: The Truth about the Day of Silence

Location- Throughout America

People in Charge- Students at the University of Virginia

Reason of importance- Is to bring attention to discrimination, verbal and physical abuse the LGBT takes everyday. The day of silence shows to those discriminated agent that it is recognized and they are not alone. Another reason is to publicize the harassment that students of this nature, have to put up with everyday, hoping for a solution. By being silent, it educates those who do not know, the discrimination of LBGT happening all over the world. In order to participate in the day of silence you can be anyone. It does not matter what your background is or you sex perseverance, just letting people know, that you know what is going on. The next day of silence is on April, 16, 2010

Question: Have you ever participated in the day of silence? Why or why not? Will you be participating in this coming year?

Friday, October 23, 2009

In the Media





Celebrity Story: Rosie O'Donnell

Rosie O'Donnell is another lesbian celebrity who cherishes her family. Rosie O'Donnell was married in a non-state-recognized wedding in 2004. Rosie O'Donnell is a winner of multiple Emmy awards and an LGBT rights activist and advocate. Rosie is both a foster mother and an adoptive mother; she has four children currently. After a fifth child, a foster child, was removed from their family, Rosie O'Donnell has been working to fight laws banning gay adoption in Florida. O'Donnell had a hand in starting "R Family Vacations", which caters complete vacation packages to gay and lesbian families. The first cruise was held with 1600 people in 2004. A documentary about the cruises, called "All Aboard! Rosie's Family Cruise" came out on HBO in 2006 and was nominated for three Emmys.

Celebrity Story: Ellen DeGeneres

One well known gay celebrity is Ellen DeGeneres. Her talk show, The Ellen DeGeneres show, often discusses controversial topics and is widely popular in the united states. The character that DeGeneres played on her sitcom, Ellen, came out on May 1st, 1997; DeGeneres came out right afterwards. In 2004 Ellen met Portia De Rossi backstage at an awards show, and the two women began dating. Portia didn’t publically come out until 2005 in interviews with Details and The Advocate. After the overturn of the same-sex marriage ban in California, DeGeneres announced on a May 2008 episode of the Ellen DeGeneres show that she and Portia de Rossi were engaged.  DeGeneres proposed to Portia with a three-carat pink diamond ring. The couple got married August 16th, 2008 in their home. Only 19 guests attended the ceremony.

This a video of the couple and a spotlight on their wedding:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTsqs-CtB_M&NR=1

 

 

In the recent presidential election, Ellen had a debate with Republican candidate John McCain about gay marriage. Here is the video:

http://www.imdb.com/video/cbs/vi889389081/

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Something to Think About

How do you think all this political influence effects individual families?

After reading the opposition, has your position on gay families shifted thus far?

If someone has a parent who is prejudice, how you think this would effect them?

"People with prejudice attitudes do not tend to have neurotic personalities, but are low in the dimensions of Agreeableness and Openness. Prejudice flourishes amongst people who are cold, callous, inflexible, close-minded, and conventional." -Psychology Today http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/human-natures